I then come to questioning what is perceived as ‘bad’ or more broadly ‘unacceptable’. Think of the term and a list of personalities such as psychopaths, pedophiles, liars, thieves to list a few enter one’s mind. But what I’d rather question is the basis as to this classification. This is not to say that being any one of these is to be considered a good characteristic, but, the fact that cause and effect does exist in every manner of speaking. It’s easy to point a finger at Hitler and comment as to the monstrosities he committed to, but, what would be indeed profound would be rather to understand the psyche behind this troubled state. Life if simply classified in black and white would not hold as many difficulties, what is to be carefully analysed is not the existence of these, but, the shades of grey often overlooked where both converge.
Why do I speak of the defaulter in such a manner as though he/she instead is the victim? Simply for the reason that when one has been exposed to such matters in life without education regarding its effects and guidance, the tendency is to accept these matters and ideologies as norms, and they in turn become a way of life. It is thus interesting to observe that the thief had once been stolen from, the sexual offender was perhaps once abused…the psychopath was educated in an oppressive environment.
The multiplier effect often referred to in the economic sense to me holds good then in education and human emotions additionally. A single act committed by one becomes a pay it forward and soon spreads without being curbed. Hence, for that reason, I find it of grave importance to connect the dots to the source and help in adopting a sound philosophy. The fact that someone is indeed diabolical is then questionable, for in almost every situation, each action is an outcome of an array of wrongs. Strange then how a chain reaction can be triggered from an action that negatively affects the person. The human brain interestingly has a 10% capacity to make rational decisions. The rest 90% capacity is just a storehouse. It’s the subliminal arena and interestingly retains the negative messaging over the years. Though it doesn’t have to its credit the power in decision making, it does enjoy what is known as top-of-the-mind recall. In such a situation, when a person is exposed to a similar situation, for the virtue that it has been stored, the individual tends to relate to the problem. So…where does the problem arise? Often problems of victims to such situations go unaddressed, thus, a lack of closure leads them to gain a distorted outlook on the same. Often, in seek to reverse the roles and in turn outweigh the scales so that control is in their favour, they themselves commit to such acts.
A simple question: which colour then would you find more appealing – black or white? The former typically programmed in one’s mind with a deep association with all that’s bad or the latter considered to be a sign of purity? Would it be reasonable then to draw conclusions based on a person’s choice of these colours and simply decide characteristics based on superficial facades? I personally prefer neither...my favourite would inarguably be red...where then do i fall in these preconceived notions...? :)
2 comments:
Curious thoughts...
I have grown up to have similar notions about the inherent abnormality of social norms. Funny that you belong to the professional world of 'people' like I do...
I'd say that norms are in place for people to find comfort in each others perceived mediocrity. For the individualistic folks, there still are norms, but they're different. :-D
Vidyuth
p.s: if your color is red, Ganesha says....... ;-)
Hey. Sorry...I've been out of sorts and off course with my blogging ways for sometime now as I'm pursuing penning some of my slightly disturbing (to the normal) viewpoints in a book "in the making".
Thanks for the comment. Skimmed through your articles and they are interesting...will leave the detailing through them to a day when I have some "self" time. A girl's gotta work :-)
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